Wessex Cancer Trust

Wessex Cancer Trust

It was November, 3 months post treatment, and I didn’t really know what to expect when I finally decided to go to Wessex Cancer Trust, in Bournemouth (WCT).  I live about 7 miles away from the Centre, so not a trek by any means, so I thought I’d just pop over and see what it was all about.  I was feeling a little anxious about walking in there, but I needn’t have worried.

The Trust is a drop-in centre, on the top floor of a set of offices.  I was buzzed in and when I walked through their door, I was greeted with two friendly faces who immediately offered me a hot drink.  They asked me to take a seat while a couple of ladies busied around answering the phone and checking paperwork.  I sat there and looked around.

No white walls.  Or staff in uniform.  No squashing onto the bench seats waiting to be seen.  It was a calming, softly lit, cosy, cushions-on-sofas, sanctuary!

Warm colours decorated the walls, where serene pictures hung.  Two ladies were nattering on one sofa and a volunteer came over with my coffee.  “Help yourself to biscuits over there”, she said, then came and sat down next to me.

We went through some paperwork, chatted about what services they offered and made a point of saying that if I just wanted to come over and escape, sit, chat, have a coffee, then go, I was more than welcome.

It was so lovely in there.  But then all of a sudden, my tears flowed.  This poor volunteer was sat there, never met me before, and I was sobbing!  But she held my hand and told me I wouldn’t believe the number of people who have come here and done the same thing.  No one was staring, no one went quiet, the few that were in there just carried on with their business, chatting away.

I felt comfortable being there, escaping the daily stresses, and openly chatting about anything. I could chat about Cancer in general, and…shock…non-Cancer related subjects!!

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Emma Ormrod, Centre Manager with myself

So, I started visiting every other week.  I would sit and talk to someone who had Bowel Cancer, or they were getting over Lung or Ovarian cancer, and other ladies with or a history of Breast Cancer.  Some were recent like me, some were visiting and were 5 years clear.

The Bournemouth branch of WCT has been a huge help in my recovery.  I would come over on their Coffee Morning where the place is buzzing with people, and I’ve been over when there’s only been me and one other in the centre.  The Manager, Emma Ormrod, or one of the volunteers there, will always make time to come and chat to you, or just leave you to some peace and quiet – whatever you want to do.

On the Coffee Mornings, just sitting next to someone you’ve never met before, because there is a spare seat and next thing you know, you’ve been chatting about their experience, listening to their concerns and feelings and taking comfort in knowing you’re not the only one feeling like this.

But also, they’re interested in listening to you too.  Of course, not everyone wants to sit and offload all their worries to someone they don’t know, but the opportunity is there to strike up a conversation if you want to.

So, once you have visited the centre, they will chat and assess you and once signed onto their books, Complimentary Therapies are also available if they feel they’ll help you.  The rooms are cosy, relaxing, therapeutic.  I’ve had some Reike, and – the main benefit for me – seeing their Counsellor regularly.

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And that’s something I always declined before when offered.  I’m glad I changed my mind.

I’ve now…gulp…booked in for Acupuncture to see if it will help with the neuropathic pain from nerve damage and help my sleep problem.  I keep being told how good it can be.  It’s just the thought of looking like a pin cushion and not being able to move!

Wessex Cancer Trust has six centres along the South Coast.  You can find the main website at  https://www.wessexcancer.org.uk/ giving details of all these fantastic centres.

If you are close enough to get to the Bournemouth centre, their services and details can be found at https://www.wessexcancer.org.uk/bournemouth

If you are reading this in other parts of the Country, do try and source similar places like this. Your hospital’s Cancer centre will have details of local support centres and your Nurse will be able to recommend things they feel you’d benefit from.

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